Road-Trip Ramblings #1: The 2-Hour Bladder


Image Source: By Colin from Los Angeles, USA 
(http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/2.0)], via Wikimedia Commons
Less than 3 hours to make it on the road today; this should be a piece of cake!
3:30  Send B & P to the bathroom, load into the car, and finish the last minute errands before leaving  town for the week
5:00 Get to soccer practice and P needs to go to the bathroom again
6:00 Soccer is over.  B & P head to the potty one more time before we hit the road
6:45 5 miles out of Park City and P already needs to go the bathroom.  It was hot today and I know he didn't get enough water while he was outside playing, so I have no idea where all this is coming from.
6:55 Pull into a gas station less than 1 hour from home.  This does not bode well.  Wondering if P's just over exaggerating how badly he needs to go, but, no, those 3-year-old legs are clenched together as tight as they can be!
8:15 5 miles away from the hotel and little P is back to squirming.  
8:30 Pull into the hotel lobby and go to get the keys.  Completely forget that P needs to pee.  My mistake.  10 minutes later B & P come running into the lobby in an almost emergency.  B goes back out to sit with the babies while I run P to the closest restrooms.
8:35 Into our rooms and the rest of the night P miraculously seems to be tinkle free...

Road-tripping with a newly potty-trained 3-year-old...keeps the journey interesting...He's so good at patiently waiting to his limit and we try to stay attuned to his little body's schedule.  That doesn't mean we haven't spent our fair share of time stopped along side the road, but I'm thinking I-80 in the middle of Wyoming might not be the safest place for that tomorrow.  Preparing now for the extra time it takes for potty breaks...

What tips do you have for traveling with a potty-training newbie?     

Saying Good-bye to A Trusty Friend

Spring is finally poking out her beautiful little head, and summer is peeking out just around the corner.  In our house that means it's time to pack away the comforters and long johns and pull out all the camping gear.  Truth be told, we've already been camping once this year ( a few weeks ago when we went to Goblin Valley) and we're ready to do it again soon.  We only have one problem...


This is the tent my husband and I bought shortly after getting married.  We barely had enough money to put rice and beans on the table, but we knew a good tent and sleeping bags would come in handy.  We were right and this tent has been to a lot of places...

Denali Park, Alaska
Green River, UT
Maybe this trip was a little too early in the season?
It's been a great tent, but we especially love that one entire side of it is a mesh wall.  Whenever possible we leave the rainfly off and we feel like we're just camping straight under the stars.  It's helped us feel free while still keeping us out of range of the mosquitoes and wind and other expected (or unexpected) things in nature. Unfortunately, this is a 3-person tent (which really means it sleeps 2 comfortably) and we are now a growing family of 6.

It's time to get a new tent.  And it's turning out to be a life-changing experience for me.

We've loved having our small tent that puts together with one person in about 3 minutes.  It fits really easy in the trunk and is light enough to carry on a backpack if we get an inkling to do such a thing.  And it will fit in any space we want it to with ease.  My research into new tents that will fit our whole entire family is finding that we are going to have to leave almost all of that behind.

Here are the few tent styles we've narrowed it down too:
Coleman Elite WeatherMaster 6
This would be my ultimate, no-cares-in-the-world choice.  I love that it has two rooms so the adults and children can sleep separated.  And with the babies starting to become mobile, this screened-in area would be perfect for letting them move around, but keeping them out of the fire or the road or whatever else they tried to get in to.  The down fall of this tent is that it is GIGANTIC compared to what we have been using.  I have real doubts whether it would even fit in a standard campground camping spot.  And we definitely would not be slinging that on our backs!
Eureka Copper Canyon 2-Room Tent
This, then, would be the logical next step-down from that King of all Tents.  Still, two rooms, but without the screened porch.  The benefit of this over that would be a slightly smaller footprint, but still I'm not so sure about the size.
Coleman 6 Instant Tent
Ultimately, I think this is what we are going to get.  It makes me sad to look at it with barely any windows and know that we'll be sacrificing the great view we've become so accustomed to.  But, for our purposes right now I think it's going to work the best.  The biggest selling point?  This summer I'm taking our 4 boys on a 6-week road trip without my husband.  We're going to be camping 5 of those weeks and I need a tent I can put up quickly all by myself.  This tent promises a 60-second set-up because of the telescoping poles that are permanently attached to the tent itself.  No unfolding and snapping together poles that you then have to shove through little holes and then somehow manage to get it stood upright without falling on it or having it collapse on you.

Like I said, for ease of putting it up by myself, this tent will probably work the best for me this summer. The earlier models were sold without a rainfly but all the information says it should be water-tight anyway.  The latest version does have a rainfly, but makes it considerably more expensive than buying one without.  Knowing we'll be camping in places that have floods more rain compared to Utah, I'm having trouble deciding which one we should go with.  And we might turn out to really really love it, but if this is the one I go with, I hope we decide in good time to buy one of the examples above with much more opportunity to feel free out in nature again.

Do you have a tent you would recommend?

This post was in no way sponsored or affiliated with the listed tent brands.  
Just my own opinions on tents I've researched for my family.

Travel Memories Saturday (Snowshoeing)

travel memoriesWe all have those classic shots that capture travel memories without having to say one word. 

 Each Saturday morning, Sharon(from State by State Travel) and I post photos that express emotion, tell a story or make you wish you could be there. 

 Be sure to also stop by State by State Travel and see what travel memories she is sharing today!

This week's travel memory comes from pretty close to home, but every time I see it I feel myself instantly transported back to that day...



Snowshoeing up Provo's South Fork Canyon


Do you want to hop into the picture and join in the fun? 
What's your favorite travel memory photo? We'd love to see! 


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email it to Sharon or I 
 and we will schedule it
  for one of our weekly Travel Memories posts. 
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Travel Memories Saturday (Albania)

travel memoriesWe all have those classic shots that capture travel memories without having to say one word. 

 Each Saturday morning, Sharon(from State by State Travel) and I post photos that express emotion, tell a story or make you wish you could be there. 

 Be sure to also stop by State by State Travel and see what travel memories she is sharing today!



This week's photo comes from the 6-week European backpacking trip my husband and I took after he graduated college and B was about to turn the sweet young age of 1.























These diapers from a tiny grocery in post-Cold War Albania seem to have been a little misleading...

 Do you want to hop into the picture and join in the fun? 
What's your favorite travel memory photo? We'd love to see! 


If you would like to have your travel memory photo used, 
email it to Sharon or I 
 and we will schedule it
  for one of our weekly Travel Memories posts. 
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Goblin Valley: A Utah Hidden Gem?

Spring in our house is always signalled by Mom getting a crazy inkling to spontaneously pack up the car and head a few hours south to warmer weather and our first camping trip for the year.  This year my husband beat me to the punch with a simple text last Wednesday saying, "We should go camping this weekend."  With an overwhelming push from all you great friends on Facebook, we did,indeed, pack our bags and head south to...

Goblin Valley
Utah State Park


I've written before about Goblin Valley and hope you'll take a second to go back and read why I think Goblin Valley is the closest thing we have to Mars on Earth.  During this weekend's trip, however, the name that kept coming to mind was "Utah's Hidden Gem".  Here's why:  Over and over again we mention this state park as one of our favorite places in the whole state to explore and only get blank-eyed stares back in return.  These are locals we're talking to, Utah natives, born and raised, and they've never heard of or been to this mythical-looking red rock playground.  

Utah State Parks
Utah State Parks
Utah State Parks

 Can I beg of you something?
(After you've read more about why I love Goblin Valley,)
Get out there and SEE it!
(Seriously, call me, I'll give you an over-enthusiastic tour!)

What's the area in your neck of the woods you wish everybody could see?

More Information:
A lot of what you need to know
 is on my previous post, so I won't repeat it here.
My advice for today would be,
Prepare for getting dirty-
it's going to happen! 

And PLEASE take PLENTY OF WATER!!  
Even on an overcast day like we had this time, 
the dry air will drain the moisture right out of you.

What Wandering Means To Me

As a first step to re-launching A Local Wander, I want to give you a chance to get to know me...



My Past

Small town Iowa girls don't often take far trips from home.  From birth to age 17 the longest trip I had taken was a three-hour road trip to my uncle's house in Weeping Water, Nebraska.  Then my mom blew everything out of the water.  Attempting to get me away from an abusive high-school boyfriend, she loaded me on a plane and sent me 8 flight hours away to the European continent. 

Now, don't go thinking this was normal for my family.  We grew up on hand-me-down clothes and Hamburger Helper with twice the noodles and half the meat.  Fate just happened to intervene that year and I became the first student  hosted by our local Lions Club in a Youth Camp and Exchange Program. Traveling to Brussels with 25 Iowa teenagers and then embarking on a 6-week solo adventure with host families in the Netherlands was the most frightening enterprise imaginable.

I came home at the end of that summer an altogether different girl (yes, I did get rid of the loser of a boyfriend soon after).  Wanderlust has been a part of me ever since.  It prompted me to study Hospitality Management and released me from the Midwest to see the world.  Working seasonal hotel jobs, I lived on Cape Cod in Massachusetts and all over the state of Alaska.  Because they were seasonal jobs, and in the tourism industry, I was also afforded months of open-ended travel.  My mid-twenties found me gallivanting around the globe and culminated in a 4-month backpacking/cruising trip that hopped from the Caribbean to western Mexico, from southeast Asia to Australia and New Zealand.  Those are the days that spoiled me!
My 1st trip away from home,
at the Kinderdijk in the Netherlands
My Present
I'm married to a native Utahn and that has been my dwelling place for the past 9 years.  Within 9 months of moving here I had experienced more of what this diverse state has to offer than a close friend who'd been going to school here more than 3 years.  As a married couple, and now as a family with four young boys, we've made it a priority to continue getting out to see what there is to see. 

People often give us long sideways glances after hearing of the next trip we're planning or reading about our latest exploits on our family blog, It's What We Do.  What they usually fail to understand is that while they're spending their expendable cash on clothes, eating out, and movies, we're bundling ours together and escaping the humdrum of our every day lives.  The ultimate example of these glances, and our own sacrifices, was a 6-week trip to Europe in celebration of my husband's college graduation and our oldest son's 1st birthday.  More than anything, traveling with my family proves to myself that I am still me and the doors of the world didn't close when I said, "I do."
At the baron's house in Yvoirre, France
My Future
A day does not go by without me gazing out my window wondering where else there is to be.  Traveling is now inherently in me.  I used to passionately proclaim that, "You don't have to settle down until your kids are in school!"  I want my family to share the world with me.  Some argue that toddlers and infants are too little to even know, that world travel is wasted until they're old enough to read about the places they are going.  I don't agree.  My 5-year-old son (you'll get to know him as "B")  is a map-lover!  He will stop every 10 steps on a trail or in a museum, lay down his map, and recalculate which way we should be heading.  I want him and his brothers to start out right from the beginning with a love and appreciation like that for exploring.
Navigating in Arches National Park
Dreams and reality are constantly changing for our family. We are going to be out in the world seeing things, make no doubt about that.  Maybe we won't be continent-hopping like I'd once dreamed, but we will be packed and jet-setting to somewhere more exotic than our suburban landscape regularly. This summer I, by myself, am taking my boys on a two-month cross-country road-trip from Utah to North Carolina and back.  Next summer I want to take them to New England, Niagara Falls, across Canada and to the beautiful border lakes of Michigan and Minnesota.  And the summer after that?  Glacier National Park and maybe even the Al-Can Highway. 

The truth is, kids can do complete K-12 programs online now. No one around me should be surprised the day I sell off all our things and strike out permanently on the open road.  The world doesn't have to settle in on me!



Updated and Revised
 from original post on Wandering Still